Has anyone dealt with [premium] couple's transformation?

Following on from hans_munich — and this may be the naive question:

How long did you give it before you decided it was working?

marco_milano said:

Update: the thing I was blaming turned out not to be the cause.

I read this differently from marco_milano, on substance rather than tone. I would resist the confidence. Half of what this board was certain about two years ago has since been quietly dropped, and nobody went back to correct the threads.

marco_milano said:

Update: the thing I was blaming turned out not to be the cause.

Agreeing with marco_milano, and the qualification matters more than the agreement. Yes, and the corollary is less popular: if the reasoning holds, it also holds where it produces an answer we do not like.

Correct me if the detail matters more than I have assumed.

marco_milano said:

Update: the thing I was blaming turned out not to be the cause.

Genuinely useful, thank you. I had the facts and not the framework. Printing the relevant bit and taking it with me.

Adding the clinical framing, because it changes how the question reads. Start from the measurement rather than the conclusion. Almost every disagreement here turns out to be two people measuring different things and comparing the numbers anyway.